Tag: life

The journey of life is so beautiful, yet many of us have never truly seen it clearly.

We cross paths with so many beautiful souls. We encounter others who are the complete opposite—people we’d rather not recall for even a second. And with so many more, our interactions feel completely neutral. At least, that’s what we believe, right?

But there is always a reason we meet someone on this journey.

Someone enters our life for a few days, someone for a few months, someone for a few years, someone for decades, and someone forever.

Every encounter gives us a valuable lesson. We either learn that we want to be like them, or that we never want to end up like them.

But here is the thing we so easily forget: we are that same lesson for other people. They might be looking at us, deciding if they want to follow in our footsteps or avoid them altogether.

So please, be good to every human being you meet. Leave them with a reason to look up to you, or at least remember you with kindness.

We only get this one life to be good to another. The next life is unknown, and it’s unlikely we will ever remember who we were in the past. Make this one count.

Do you realize how much we are alike?

The same colored blood runs through our veins. The exact same kind of heart beats beneath our chests.

How have we failed to realize that we are hurting one another? How small-minded of us to think we can treat people however we please.

Some people don’t speak much. Some argue too much. Some simply do whatever they are asked to do.

But none of this gives us the right to belittle anyone.

Just because someone else is treating others poorly doesn’t mean you should, too. We are mature enough to distinguish between right and wrong—we don’t need to follow bad examples.

So please, be gentle, be polite, and be good to every soul you cross paths with.

Life is about sharing happiness with one another. Life is about caring for your loved ones. Life is all about creating good memories.

The lies that are open to us.

We blame others for our situation.

We get angry when things are out of our control.

We feel worthless when we can’t achieve what others have achieved.

We expect something in return when we give.

These are the lies we tell ourselves.

But then there is the truth—the truth that is hidden.

Maybe you are in this situation because of your own choices.

Maybe you are angry because you know your hands are tied, and there is nothing you can do.

Maybe you know you didn’t work hard enough to achieve your goals.

Maybe you are expecting something in return, and that’s why you helped someone.

The truth is sometimes difficult to accept.

But to uncover the hidden truth, you just need to look within.

Look at the root of everything.

When you fight with people, look within.

When you blame others for your situation, look within.

When you feel angry, ask yourself why.

When you feel worthless, ask yourself what you can change.

Everything starts from within.

And when you start looking within, the picture becomes clearer.

People can live for hundreds of years, yet still never truly understand themselves.

Don’t be that person.

Look within.

Face the truth.

Wake up.

Now or never.

To feel connected, one must have an empty mind.

An occupied mind distracts us from everything around us.

Have you ever realised that you have walked the same path every day, yet never noticed the beauty of the environment until one day your mind was free?

That’s how we miss so many important things in our life.

We miss our loved ones growing.

We miss our connections fading away.

And most importantly, we waste our life without noticing the beauty around us.

The beauty of nature.

The beautiful people around us.

And sometimes, we only realise their value when they are no longer with us.

Please, be present.

Be mindful.

Have a quiet mind.

Don’t let your thoughts take you away from the moment you are living.

Look around you. You might be missing something beautiful.

Infiltrated by anger, jealousy, ego, hatred, attitude, power, and money.

This is us.

This is life.

This is the world.

A world where lives don’t seem to matter.

Money matters.

Power matters.

Selfishness matters.

Revenge matters.

The world is already imperfectly perfect.

We just need to work on one thing:

Changing ourselves.

This is the true purpose of living a life.

Spreading the wisdom of positivity and eliminating the negativity.

It is hard.

That is why we have been given decades of life—to experience, acknowledge, learn, and improve.

We may not be able to change the whole world, but we can change ourselves.

Have you ever realised that every part of our body is within our control, yet our heart is not?

You want to forget someone or something, yet your heart keeps reminding you.

It is easy for someone to give advice, but it is very hard for the person whose heart keeps going through the same thing.

Whether it is about love, ego, reputation, proof, or something very important to you, it is better to remember, go to the depth of the issue, and find a solution rather than avoid it.

Avoidance and ignorance will only bring disasters into your life that you cannot imagine.

Get to the depth of the issue. Look at it from different perspectives. Only then can you find peace in your mind and a remedy for your heart.

So, please, beautiful souls all around the world,

You might be in love, you might have just gone through a breakup, or you might be going through something else in your life.

Take your time.

Look at things from different angles before you make any decisions you may regret.

Pain in the heart is so hard to bear. But when we make a wrong decision because of one issue, we might hurt the people we love and lose the memories we have created, and the memories we could have created together.

Sometimes, we focus so deeply on one problem that we forget everything else that matters in our lives.

Before you make a decision, take a step back, look at the bigger picture, and give yourself time to understand what truly matters.

This is what we have been doing all our lives.

We don’t value what we have or realise how precious it is until one day we miss it—when it is no longer within our sight.

The present society has defined life in such a way that everybody is rushing, competing, and chasing dreams.

And in that rush, while competing and running after our dreams, we ignore what we already have.

Until one day, we realise that somewhere along the way, we left behind a precious person—a friend, a family member, someone we loved.

Sometimes we ignore them.
Sometimes we don’t value them.
Sometimes we simply don’t notice or acknowledge them.

We get busy. We tease them. We bully them. We yell at them. We shout at the very people who are so valuable to us.

And the surprising fact is, some of us may never even realise how valuable that person was.

We just keep moving with the flow until the very end of our lives.

There are so many examples.

It could be your brother or sister.

You might be busy with your work, busy enjoying time with your friends, but you don’t have time to spend with your sister.

You are a world to her.

She waits for you to share her things. She cleans the house, cooks for you, does the laundry, and waits for you.

But you are so busy and ignorant that as soon as you reach home, you go inside and lock the door.

And when she comes close to you, you shout at her.

It could be your partner as well.

She might have had a hard day at work. People might have been teasing her, ignoring her, or giving her more work than she could handle.

She might not be able to say no. She might not be able to speak up.

Maybe she had an argument with a colleague. Maybe she is simply tired or hungry.

When she gets home, she wants to share everything with you.

But you shut her down.

You tell her, “Leave your work at work.”

Saying that is easy for you, but she might not be able to handle everything she is carrying inside.

The things she keeps inside start to pile up.

And when they finally come out, they can become something much bigger than you ever expected.

She might lose trust in the world.

She might become tired of living a life where she feels that nobody values her.

And you know what?

Things can get very complicated.

Relationships can break without mutual understanding, without communication, and without either person truly understanding what went wrong.

You may move on with someone else.

But she might still be stuck with everything she was carrying inside.

And the realisation may come one day.

Or it may never come.

The same goes for our parents.

These are just a few examples.

Ignoring our loved ones, our friends, and our family—and failing to value, understand, or acknowledge what they are going through—can change someone’s life in ways we may never know.

We may not realise what we have lost until we move on.

And sometimes, we realise it only when everything is already on the wrong side.

There is a song that says, “Only know you love her when you let her go.”

And maybe there is a reason those words feel so true.

What is the point of realising, missing, and regretting later when we could have valued, respected, and understood them while they were still with us?

So, treasure them while they are with you.

Love them with all your heart.

Listen to them.

Understand them.

Give them the happiness they deserve.

Because one day, the person you keep ignoring may become the person you would give anything to have back.